New year means changes. Changes for the better. Why not take advantage? Time to do things to better yourself, for yourself.
First, figure out what your why is. Why do you want to change? How is changing going to make things better? What specifically do you want to change? What are the steps to get there? So many questions that only you know the answers to.
Second, decide on the steps you need to take to get there. Make sure they are small steps that work towards your larger goal. Smaller steps tend to be accomplished while larger goals that aren't attained easily tend to fall by the wayside.
Lastly, Take Action! All of this planning means nothing if you don't do anything about it. You deserve to take action for yourself. Now is the time. Work systematically to accomplish all that you plan to this 2019!